Sheila Dixon

This year schools around the state pushed back the start date of the academic year to the last week of August. I remember when schools started after Labor Day! After the long holiday weekend, filled with outdoor activities, you knew the summer was over. Come the next morning, it was time to get serious. For me, those days have changed. My daughter, now in college, goes back to school the third week in August and my son Joshua, a high school student, went back to school the last week in August. It’s so different sending them off too school now that they are older. I miss the days when they were younger, buying new uniforms and school supplies. They were so excited to organize their new pencils and notebooks. I loved watching them take time to put everything in order.

For me the most exciting time would be when their father and I would take them to school on that very first day. I remember seeing a little fear and uncertainty in their eyes as they looked to us for comfort and assurance. I really miss those times. As they have gotten older they want to get their own school supplies. They both have their own ideas on getting prepared for the new school year. All they seem to need from me is the money. They are adamant that they want to do it themselves. While it warms my heart and makes me proud to see their independence, I have to admit that I miss doing those uniquely “mom” things that used to be such a chore. My children are blossoming into responsible, mature, and talented individuals. We have worked hard to give them a strong foundation. And it turn they make us so proud. It’s been amazing to watch the sibling relationship that has developed between my children. Jasmine has been a wonderful role model for Joshua. Because of this he continues to step out on his own. Joshua has gained great strength from his older sister. It’s comforting to know that they have a strong relationship and will always be there for each other.

The one thing that I tell parents with young children is to remember that they don’t stay young forever. Cherish all of the moments you have with them while they are still young. Enjoy every small detail and “chore”. Each day brings new chapters for all of us, especially our children, and before we know it (or are even ready for it); we have to let them go and fly for themselves.